THE BIG QUESTION!!!!!
That is refereed to as the big question moment, let's discuss it in today's lecture.
I know you gonna pay close attention because it really is a big and important question.
Now, someone may ask, how do i go about it PROFWISE?
It simple and straight forward,
When HE Raise It or create the opportunity.
Obviously, the best scenario would be if he initiated it
himself. If he does, it's a sign that he genuinely
loves you, he's sensitive to your needs, and he wants to
make it official soon!
It's not very romantic, but most good guys usually bring
it up BEFORE the proposal. But on the other hand, it gives
you enough time to prepare for your lives together, and
that's a good thing.
The catch? He won't initiate it unless he's 100%
rest sure, without the shadow of a doubt, that he truly wants
to spend the rest of his entire life with you... because he knows
life will be happier, easier, and more fun with you by his
side.
And that's the main challenge, because guys have to give
up a lot of freedom when they commit to one woman.
Here's the hint to make him commit - never you tell him life would be better with
you. Instead, show him by.
a.) Understanding what commitment really means to him; and
b.) Making him understand, in a loving and gentle way,
what commitment means to you.
Learn how to do both by my eBook I
highly recommend this book if you've been dating each
other for a while, and things are slowly starting to get
serious!
But here's another situation...
What If He Doesn't Bring It Up,
And Has No Plans To?
What if you've already been in a relationship for a year
or more, but he still hasn't talked to you about marriage,
and seems to be avoiding "The Talk" altogether?
Most times, it means something emotional is holding him
back from committing to you:
AND WHAT COULD THAT BE?
- Emotional childhood trauma
- A violent or neglectful family
- Parents who divorced
- A bad history with another woman
- A firm, emotional belief that life would NOT be better
with marriage
Yup, it's a challenge. But it would be a shame to let all
those years together go to waste, right?
If this is your situation, you need a more specific
approach...
Again, you need to SHOW him, not TELL him, that there's
really nothing to be worried about. And you can do this by
making some adjustments in your own life.
Think about it as "creating space between you," so that he
naturally moves INTO that space. And that space will open
his eyes to the beautiful possibilities of having a life
with you.
This approach is well align in my
eBook
But you do have to hurry... the longer you wait, the
harder it's going to be to change his mind. I suggest you
take the book for its trial run and apply its approach for
the next 30 days.
Let me know how it works!
And finally, some advice for the singles out there...
What If You've Just Started Dating...
But You're Already Feeling Something Special?
Here's the most important lesson to keep in your heart:
"The Talk" isn't a single, beautiful, life-changing event
that happens all at once. And "The Talk" is inspired in
him from the first moment he meets you.
"The Talk" is the end result of many good decisions, made
over a long period of time, beginning even before you
become a couple.
So if you're still single - or if you've just started
dating, but you're already feeling something special -
then I strongly encourage you to educate yourself. Prepare
yourself for a lifelong relationship by:
- Learning and understanding how men think
- How to bring out a man's "pursuing" nature
- The right ways to communicate with a man
- How to trigger "forever feelings" in him from the
beginning
I know it's a lot to take in. That's why I wrote the book I mentioned earlier
easy-to-apply eBook practicality. You can placed your order by sending email to
profwise247@gmail.com
What are the four stages of a relationship you have to
prepare for and the Big Question? Find out in the next lecture, delivering soon
(THE BEST TIME TO ASK YOUR BOYFRIEND ABOUT MARRIAGE (Season 2)
Make Him Talk To You
About The Future!
Remember - it's always, ALWAYS best when he initiates "The
Talk" himself. It's a clear sign that he loves you, and is
seriously considering devoting the rest of his life to you!
Once he starts "The Talk," that's when you can truly
breathe a sigh of relief. That's when you know, in your
heart, mind, and soul, that you've finally found your
"Happily Ever After."
The catch?
There's no "one size fits all" approach to make him talk
to you about your future together. Different situations
call for different approaches.
Fortunately, we've already done the work for you!
If you're still single, or if you just started dating,
Lecture (Season 3)
(THE BEST TIME TO ASK YOUR BOYFRIEND ABOUT MARRIAGE (Season 3)
If you've just started dating each other exclusively,
Lecture (Season 4)
(THE BEST TIME TO ASK YOUR BOYFRIEND ABOUT MARRIAGE (Season 4)
And if you've been in a relationship for a year or more,
Lecture (Season 5)
(THE BEST TIME TO ASK YOUR BOYFRIEND ABOUT MARRIAGE (Season 5)
Ensure you don't miss any of this lectures, as we are ready to dish it out the way it is.
Fact and Truth.
To your happiness,
Peterwise Innocent A.K.A PROFWISE
Relationship, Dating & Marriage Counselor
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