Dear KLA247 Members,
What will you do if your boyfriend's mom
hates you? If you had the confidence of
our women in Keeplovealive247, you'll know how
to make his mom lower her guard, warm up
to you, and even become your biggest
fan! Click the link below to start building this
kind of winning confidence:
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Beloved,
Let's say you're in a relationship with
a great guy. He's a perfect fit for your life.
You love each other to death, you're already talking
about marriage, and you're already looking for a home
to settle down in.
there's just one problem: His mom Hates you.
She doesn't approve of you, she tries to
discourage her son from spending time with you,
and may even threaten to break up the marriage
before it happens.
Have you ever been in that situation?
Or are you in that situation RIGHT NOW?
It's a HUGE mess! And it's enough to make
you just want to scream into the wind.
It's very, VERY important to solve this
problem with your boyfriend's mom before
the two of you get married... otherwise
it could mean a lifetime of pain, frustration,
and hate.
But did you know that, depending on HOW you try to
solve the problem with his mom, you can actually
make the problem WORSE?
Here are three common mistakes women make when dealing
with their boyfriend's difficult mom:
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MISTAKE #1: ARGUE WITH THE MOM
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Some women go ballistic and go into the warpath.
They confront the mom and argue with her, going into
word wars and cat-fights that don't really solve anything.
Obviously, this approach never really works. Even if you
win the argument, it's not going to stop his mom from plotting
her revenge on you.
If you've watched even just one episode of "Monster In-Laws,"
then you can imagine the kind of damage an angry mom can do to
a marriage!
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MISTAKE #2: IGNORE THE MOM
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Other women think the best thing to do
if his mom hates you is to simply ignore her.
After all, after the wedding, he belongs to YOU
now. And there's nothing she can do about it. Right?
Oh, so wrong! And here are 3 reasons why.
One, nothing's stopping her from trying to break up
your marriage even AFTER the wedding.
Two, unless your boyfriend has a stained relationship
with his mom, he won't like having to choose between you
and her.
And three, even if he DOES choose you over his mom...
how sure are you that he's not going to resent you for forcing
him into such a painful decision?
And finally:
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MISTAKE #3: PACIFY THE MOM
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Here are the women who try to PACIFY their boyfriend's
mom. They listen closely to his mom's terms, conditions, and
expectations, and then they go out their way to try to MEET them.
Sure, this might work. But at the same time, it could be recipe
for DISASTER!
Why? Because think about it - when you meet her terms, conditions,
and expectations, and she realizes she can very easily make you do
whatever she wants... what's stopping her from heaping even MORE
terms, conditions, and expectations on you?
I've read marriage horror stories where the couple was so firmly under
the mother-in-law's control that the mother-in-law actually MOVES IN with
the couple. (Or the other way around- the couple moves in with the mother-
in-law.)
Would you REALLY want his mom controlling your every move after the wedding?
(I sure wouldn't!)
So what's the solution? what's the Keeplovealive247 woman way of dealing
with a mother-in-law who hates you? check it out after the cut:
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PROFWISE PRACTICAL POINT:
HOW KEEPLOVEALIVE247 WOMEN DEAL WITH
HATEFUL MOMS-IN-LAW
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Here's the secret: Instead of just
meeting his mom's expectations, SURPASS
them.
That's right - meet them and then do
MORE than what she expects!
When you SURPASS his mom's expectations,
you catch her off-guard, you tell her
YOU'RE in control, and you instantly
make her see you in a more positive
light.
For instance, let's say you're a hard
worker in the corporate world, but his
mom expects you to have "housewife"
skills.
Don't meet her expectations by quitting
your job and becoming a housewife.
SURPASS her expectations!
SURPASS her expectations by inviting
her, plus friends and family, to a
barbecue at your backyard every three or
four weekends. Show her that you're
fully capable of "housewife" activities
like cooking, cleaning, and entertaining
guests - all while holding a great party
together.
THAT'LL shut her up!
Or here's another example: Let's say
you're not very religious, and his mom
expects you to be a churchgoer. Don't
meet her expectations by converting to
her religion against your will. SURPASS
her expectations!
Show her that you take your spirituality
seriously by planning a church wedding
with your boyfriend. And give his mom a
special place in the ceremony and
reception - something she's been wanting
to have all her life.
See what I mean?
Instead of outdoing, ignoring, or
surrendering to his mom, you're
SURPASSING her expectations with flying
colors. You're meeting BOTH your needs
and expectations at the same time, and
everyone's happy!
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HOW TO MAKE IT HAPPEN
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Now I'm sure some of you are thinking:
"Surpassing his mom's expectations sure
sounds tough and expensive, Profwise!"
Listen to me: If you've been growing as
a Keeplovealive247 Woman by reading our
Lectures and e-book for the past few
years... then it should be easy.
You should already have the strength,
the resources, and most importantly the
unbreakable CONFIDENCE, to surpass
people's expectations over and over
again!
But if you're new to Keeplovealive247
Initiative or if you've been
practicing our methods but you're still
not quite "there" yet, that's okay.
Relax! We'll find a way to help you
solve ALL your love problems.
And like I mentioned before, the most
important thing to have is unbreakable
CONFIDENCE.
Confidence isn't the absence of fear and
anxiety. Confidence is the ability to
OVERCOME fear and anxiety!
When you're confident, any problem, any
trial, any challenge that comes your way
is NOTHING to you.
With your unbreakable confidence, you
can solve those problems, overcome those
challenges, and SURPASS people's
expectations of you.
Would you like to learn this kind of
"Keeplovealive247 Woman" confidence?
Then I invite you to take the fast track
by keeping it right here with
Keeplovealive247 Blog, Facebook Group,
Twitter, BBM Groups etc. And above all,
order and read our E-book to boost your knowledge
and Confidence today.
Now, Will you let other people break you? Or
will you be unbreakable? ;)
- - - > BE UNBREAKABLE NO MATTER WHAT! < - - -
Stay right here as we treat this topic
(BE UNBREAKABLE NO MATTER WHAT!) in our next
lecture.
Before we draw the cotton, we will advised you
to invite your friends right here to also learn
this fact about Dating and Relationship on
Keeplovalive247 Blog.
Your comment, suggestion and question is welcomed
right here.
And again, i say Be Smart, Be Wise, Be Confidence
when it comes to Dating and Relationship and all aspect of life.
We Love You.
Thank you.
Profwise.
